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	<title>Paul Cockayne - Relationship Counsellor</title>
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	<description>I work with couples or individuals where the focus is on relationship issues</description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Family History</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:44:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page
As a couple counsellor I often find that it is useful and interesting for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Step Families</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 14:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
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This is a sort of counselling “blog” to give you a flavour of how I work. You can find more information about me by clicking one of the links at the bottom right of this page
In situations where one or both of a couple have children with other partners, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Where does the time go?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 14:12:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
Couples often tell me that they don’t seem to have time to spend on their relationship – with children and busy working lives, the relationship just gets “squeezed out” and when, at the end of the day, jobs [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Communications</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
One of the most frequent issues couples bring to relationship counselling is that they have difficulty communicating. Sometimes arguments can flare up very quickly, often over silly things. Sometimes couples feel that they have nothing to say to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Supervision</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/201002/counselling-in-wokingham-%e2%80%93-supervision/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 10:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paulcockayne3@gmail.com
For more information about me click on a link on the right
I offer supervision to counsellors from any theoretical background.
Just as the success of counselling hinges on the therapeutic relationship between counsellor and client, so, I believe, the success of supervision hinges on the supervisory relationship.
As a supervisor I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Moving Forward</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/201001/counselling-in-wokingham-%e2%80%93-moving-forward/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 12:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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For more information about me click on a link on the right
Sometimes we can become very stuck. We can become dispirited and demotivated, we can’t be bothered. Or perhaps there are so many little things to do that we can’t decide where to start, we spend all our time [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham - Polarisation</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/201001/counselling-in-wokingham-polarisation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 10:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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For more information about me click on a link on the right
In relationships, we sometimes find ourselves caught in “vicious cirles” – patterns of behaviour that are destructive but difficult to change. For example, suppose one of you tends to be stricter with your children than the other. The [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Who is Right?</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/201001/counselling-in-wokingham-%e2%80%93-who-is-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 17:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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For more information about me click on a link on the right
As a couple, there are bound to be times when you disagree. You are two individuals and it is natural that sometimes you will have different opinions.
This is often a source of conflict in a relationship, but it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham - Taking Small Steps</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/200911/counselling-in-wokingham-taking-small-steps/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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For more information about me, click on a lnk on the right
While there can be “breakthrough moments” in counselling, very often progress is slow, and that can be frustrating.   This can apply in both individual and in couple work.  For example, an alcoholic can only recover an hour, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling in Wokingham – Honesty</title>
		<link>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/200911/counselling-in-wokingham-%e2%80%93-honesty/</link>
		<comments>http://www.pcrc.berkshire-website.co.uk/200911/counselling-in-wokingham-%e2%80%93-honesty/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 11:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Cockayne</dc:creator>
		
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For more information about me click on a link on the right
Honesty can be difficult in relationships. We care about out partner and don’t want to hurt them, and so sometimes it is tempting to tell a “white lie”, to bend the truth a little, or just not to [...]]]></description>
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