Experiences of a Couple Counsellor in Wokingham – Being Stuck
Paul Cockayne – 07791 970406 – paul_cockayne@hotmail.com
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Couples often come to counselling because they are stuck. You may have tried to talk about a particular issue – you may have tried many times – but you end up hitting the same brick wall every time – or maybe you just argue round and round in circles.
As a counsellor, what I won’t do is to take sides in such arguments. What I will try to do instead is to help you approach the subject in a different way. Sometimes that brick wall can be broken down, slowly, a brick at a time. Sometimes it’s a matter of finding a different approach, so that rather than banging into that wall all the time, you find a way to walk around it instead.
Sometimes, too, it can help to change sides – to play the part of your partner for a while – I’ll write more on that in a suture entry.